Embrace the awkwardness!

You’re all in the same boat, figuring out your new living situation, and the last thing you want is to feel like a stranger in your own flat. So, let’s get you started with some easy ways to break the ice and make those first few weeks a lot more fun.

Here are five top tips to help you get chatting, bonding, and feeling at home in your new flat.

1. Host a chill flatmate hangout

One of the best ways to bond with your flatmates is to get everyone together in a casual setting. You don’t need to plan anything big, just a low-pressure hangout where everyone can come as they are. Think snacks, drinks, maybe a few board games or a Netflix show on in the background.

It’s an easy way to see everyone’s personalities and get the conversation flowing without any pressure. Whether it’s a “welcome to the flat” evening or just a chance to unwind after a long week, it’s a great way to break the ice and start building those connections.

2. Cook a meal together

Food = good vibes. Nothing brings people together quite like sharing a meal. You don’t have to be a top chef, but cooking together can be a great way to connect with your new flatmates. You could do a simple potluck-style dinner, where everyone brings something, or even try a theme night (think: taco night, pasta party, or pizza making).

If you're looking for some ideas or recipes, be sure to check out our UofGLiving Food section. 

3. Take a tour of the local area together

If you're new to Glasgow, why not explore the city with your flatmates? Whether it’s a trip to Kelvingrove Park or a wander around the West End, having a flatmate day out can be an easy way to spend time together without feeling forced.

Exploring the local area is a great icebreaker, and you’ll get to know your flatmates while also discovering cool spots around the city. You could grab a coffee at one of Glasgow’s quirky cafes, check out the shops, or even try some local street food.

Find out more info on Glasgow and all the interesting things near to you by reading our Area Guides and Glasgow Guides.

4. Create a flat WhatsApp group

It might seem like a small thing, but creating a WhatsApp group for your flat can help get the conversations going. It’s a great way to share things like plans, what’s for dinner, or simply check in with each other.

You don’t have to jump straight into deep convos, just a quick message to see how everyone’s doing or to ask if anyone wants to join a trip to the supermarket can help keep things friendly and connected. Over time, these small, everyday chats will turn into more natural, in-person conversations.

5. Make the first move

Don't wait around for someone else in your flat to organise stuff or even start the conversation - be the flatmate you want to hang around with. If you're new to organising plans, then don't worry, all you need to do is get the ball rolling by asking if they are free to do something in the first place. Then you can all plan together what would be best to do. One of you has to be first, so why not you?